Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Over the Horizon is Another Bright Sky

Dibba, Sultanate of Oman
The First Month
January was a not month of cheer. Getting back to work and being surrounded by coworkers well aware of Marie’s passing as well as the our students in the community
My friend Clare and I often referred to this time as escapism. While the concern from those around you was important, it was also overwhelming because our personal and professional lives had collided. Even more exposed since the entire community knew Marie had passed and some even knew her personally, which added to the layers of grief.

I felt extremely numb and when I heard about Grandma Pat passing away, my mind was blank. Learning a friend passed away Jan 4, funeral Jan 14, then learning about Grandma Pat on the 18th.  I had met Pat during high school and she was always a sweet and supportive person and a rock for her family. I can imagine the loss and grief her family must be going through.
Here was a year I was looking forward to, and right away the weight on my shoulders seemed to accumulate. During this time there were two things which provided adequate escape: talking and sharing memories with Marie’s “closest” acquaintances and running. Also it helped to have support at a distance from family members and friends in the States.

Going to the movies during the day, especially the Gold Vox Cinema experience was also therapeutic. The menu is quiet extensive and your seats recline all the way. Smaller cinema with a large screen, plenty of space between the seats to stretch out and get comfortable.
 Blankets are provided and a bell on the center console for you to get a waiter’s attention, should you need to do so. Also quiet during the day which was a relief. 
 The waiting area; enclosed private area to order food before you are seated.
 The large screen
 Seats in the row
Coca Cola and large popcorn to accompany the movie

Must Keep Running
Prior to the unforeseen circumstances, I had committed to running 2 races: one in Oman and the other in Cyprus. My mind could have used clarity, and I had to continue with my training. 

21st Wadi Bih Run-Feb 8th, 2013
Meet the team: 5 runners, a captain, and our fantastic driver before we left for the race

Beside the outdoor factor, I knew this run would be challenging in many ways. First, the total distance for the race is 72kms (45miles) for the team of 5 runners. This means approximately throughout the relay, each member runs approximately 15km=10miles. That number is scary for a variety of reasons, considering the last race I had run was 6 miles. Now this one had hills and valleys to navigate. Good part, there is an SUV following the runners throughout the trail. When you are not running, you get a break and rotate out as assigned throughout the race.

Not to mention, the night before you sleep/camp outside on the beach. Sleeping approximately less than 5 hours!!  This was due to a late bed time since 3 chaperone vehicles got stuck in the sand. Various team members were trying to push the vehicles out. Given the dropping temperatures and “moving” sand only one was successfully retrieved. Our coach spent most of the night packing the sand to assist with any efforts in the morning.

Back to the sleeping conditions…tarps were laid on the ground and sleeping bag was the next layer. If one did not plan for sweatshirts or heavy socks, you would wake up throughout the night shivering. There is a hotel facility within a 10 minute walk where one freshens up and uses the restrooms. If you book in advance, you can be lucky to have a peaceful rest. Other alternatives, on the tarp, tent, or in this case, two of our colleagues brought along an air mattress for the night.
The race begins around 6:30am and I believe “wake up” call was around 4:30am. This meant rushing to the hotel to use the restrooms, brush teeth, switch into running gear, and stretch before crossing the start line. Also a good time to grab breakfast snacks and hydrate before hitting the pavement. Nothing but adrenaline running through your body and you forget what time it really is at that moment. However the view is outstanding.
This area was filled with cars overnight and people sleeping under tents
The starting line in sight
Did I mention-no bathrooms along the trail. If you have to go, it is best to have your wet naps and find a good rock to duck behind. Somewhere along the way, you also have to watch out for mountain goats.
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Regardless of the dust, hills, and muscle pains, the greatest feeling is knowing that the finish line is on the horizon. However, once you cross that line you feel absolutely accomplished.  Next set of emotions is the body pains. Luckily that is where the couch comes in. 

 RANDOM Abu Dhabi:

 While parking a driver of an SUV skipped the curb and drove through hospital doors/window. Luckily no one was hurt- at least from what we saw.
On a separate instance a foggy day/low clouds in Abu Dhabi
My first attempted a making deviled eggs; I happened to find all the ingredients.
I actually needed an umbrella one afternoon
BONUS:
Grand Opening of Qasr Al Hosn Festival a 10 - day community event celebrating over 250 years of Emirati history, culture, and traditions. This included the creation of the historic Qasr al Hosn Fort. The fort is located directly across from my office window and I had the privilege to watch the parade during the day.
NEXT TIME: Countdown to the US and Cyprus

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